1) Learn a few local words (it goes a long way)

Aruba is multilingual. You'll hear Papiamento daily, plus Dutch, English, and Spanish. Even a small effort makes people smile.

Try these:

• • Bon dia (Good morning)
• • Bon tardi (Good afternoon)
• • Bon nochi (Good evening / night)
• • Danki (Thank you)
• • Por fabor (Please)

Locals will often switch to English quickly—but starting in Papiamento shows respect.

2) Don't rush the vibe—Aruba moves at a relaxed pace

Customer service is friendly, but the pace can feel calmer than what you're used to. This isn't laziness—it's a cultural rhythm. Be patient, stay polite, and you'll get the best version of Aruba.

Tip: If you're in a hurry, communicate it kindly: "Sorry, I'm on a schedule—would it be possible to…?"

3) Greeting matters: say hello before you ask

In Aruba, walking up and immediately asking for something can feel abrupt. A simple "Bon dia" or "Hello, how are you?" first is the norm—especially in smaller shops, local restaurants, and neighborhoods.

4) Respect the island's nature (it's part of the culture)

Arubans take pride in the island's landscapes—especially the desert terrain, beaches, and wildlife. Being mindful isn't just "eco-friendly," it's culturally appreciated.

Do this:

• • Don't take rocks, coral, or shells
• • Don't feed wild animals
• • Stay on paths in natural areas
• • Avoid stepping on coral when swimming/snorkeling

5) Dress smart: beachwear stays at the beach

Aruba is casual, but there's still a line. Wearing a swimsuit in a restaurant, grocery store, or downtown is usually seen as disrespectful.

Rule of thumb: Bring a cover-up or shirt and shorts when you leave the beach.

6) Be mindful on Sundays and during family time

Sunday is a big family day for many locals. Some businesses operate shorter hours, and certain areas feel quieter. If you're driving or planning tours, check hours and plan accordingly. This is also a great day to slow down—take a long breakfast, visit a cultural spot, or enjoy a sunset dinner.

7) Tip like you mean it (but know what's already included)

Tipping is common in Aruba, especially in tourism areas, but sometimes a service charge is already included.

Quick guide:

• • Restaurants: check your bill for service charge first
• • If included: locals often still leave a little extra for great service
• • Tour guides/drivers: tipping is appreciated if they went above and beyond

If you're unsure, ask politely: "Is service included?"

8) Driving culture: be calm, courteous, and alert

Aruba driving is generally relaxed, but there are plenty of roundabouts and some areas with narrow roads.

Local-style tips:

• • Use roundabouts correctly (yield and signal)
• • Let others merge when possible
• • Don't honk aggressively—it's not the vibe
• • Watch for pedestrians and cyclists

9) Support local businesses—Aruba appreciates it

Beyond the resorts, Aruba has small family-run restaurants, snack trucks, local artisans, and independent tour operators. Spending even a little outside big chains helps the community and often gives you the most memorable experiences.

Try:

• • A local snack ("pastechi" in the morning is a classic)
• • Handmade souvenirs and art markets
• • Community tours that highlight history and nature

10) Ask questions with curiosity, not judgment

Aruba has a unique blend of cultures shaped by the Caribbean, Europe, Latin America, and centuries of movement and trade. People are proud of their island, but like anywhere, they don't love being stereotyped.

Better than: "Is it safe here?"

Try: "Any areas you recommend I visit or avoid at night?"

Better than: "Do locals live like this?"

Try: "What do you recommend for a more local experience?"

Curiosity opens doors.

Bonus tip: Small kindness wins big

Aruba is known as "One Happy Island" for a reason—people are genuinely friendly. Match that energy:

• • Smile
• • Say hello
• • Be patient
• • Leave places cleaner than you found them

You'll get the same warmth back.

Final thought

Aruba is more than a destination—it's a community. When you show respect for the language, pace, and everyday customs, you're not just visiting—you're connecting. And that's what turns a good trip into one you'll always remember.